retarded questions

lately i heard someone said "that's a retarded question".
i didn't know the meaning so i went to look for it. i was amazed on how she picked the word.
retarded is actually a substitution for stupid or silly or unimportant.

so, what question can be generated as retarded question?
that person answering a question "do you love your ****** more than ever? by saying "that's a retarded question".
if it is so...
then i've been involved in so many ways for retarded question.
i should say that those questions although only some of them are sometimes very much annoying.
but i never able to manage myself answering the question by saying "that's a retarded question"
instead, i answer them as i please, or at least polite enough for the person giving me question :)

here are some retarded questions that i usually get:

1. where's your husband?
2. when's he going to go home?
3. how long your husband be working overseas?
4. are you pregnant yet?
5. why don't you get pregnant?
6. do you decide to postpone your pregnancy?
(wish i could answer them by saying 'that's a retarded question)

perhaps the person asking me those question do not realize how annoying they are to me.

about my husband, sometimes i don't even know exactly where he is (in japan, korea, china, taiwan, or else) i also wonder myself about where he is, is he okay, when is he going to get home, how long should i wait for him, how many days should i live without him, how many second should ticking waiting for him. i'm suffering myself even without no body asking me those retarded question.

and as if those questions are not enough, when i answer them by saying i don't know or i'm not sure. the 'person' will ask another question in terms of amazed or disgrace "how come? you should know where or when or how about your husband. it sounds weird when you said i don't know." (o yeah.... please tell me something i don't know, Mr./Mrs. smart*** )

and about the pregnancy.
i've had enough of it!!!!!

people,...
when i get pregnant, then i'll get pregnant.
what ever will be, will be.
everyone will see the changes in me when i carry the fetus, right!
so stop asking!!!!!

to get married is one thing.
and to get pregnant is another one thing.
it doesn't mean that i'm married then i'm automatically pregnant.

hello...
knock...knock...
didn't you guys learn chapter of human reproduction in high school? or you're just old enough to forget about them. huh????

retarded questions!!!!!
but, thank you for your attention anyway..
haha

-xoxo-
deedee